In February, I had the amazing opportunity to speak at the 62nd ISPS Handa Halberg Awards in Auckland. The event was attended by some of New Zealand’s most celebrated athletes, top government officials, and prominent business leaders, all gathered in one room.
“As I spoke, one thought kept running through my mind: I was never supposed to be here.”
Before I ever had a chance to prove myself, society had already decided what I could and couldn’t do. I remember being a child and overhearing conversations about what my future would look like, discussions that focused more on limitations than possibilities. Teachers, doctors, and even well-meaning friends often assumed I would always need help rather than recognising the independence I could achieve with the right support. It was as if my potential had been predetermined before I had the opportunity to define it for myself. My potential was too often reduced to my limitations.
I still remember the doubts that were thrown my way growing up, like when doctors told me that sports would never be an option for me. My future, according to them, was going to be full of barriers instead of possibilities. And yet, here I was, present in that room, proving those assumptions wrong.
“Like so many other disabled individuals, my abilities were underestimated long before I even had a chance to show what I was capable of.”
The Halberg Awards made me reflect on just how deeply ingrained these perceptions are. Too often, society writes off disabled people before we even get started. I thought back to the times I was overlooked, sidelined, or underestimated in school, in social settings, and even in spaces that claimed to be “inclusive.” Those experiences only fueled my determination to challenge and change the way people view disability.
Being able to share my story with elite athletes, influential leaders, and passionate advocates was an opportunity I didn’t take lightly. It wasn’t just about telling my journey; it was about confronting the misconceptions that too often define the disabled experience. Companies and organisations like Medifab and Spex Seating understand this better than most. They go beyond the basic idea of inclusion by creating assistive solutions that empower disabled people to live with independence and dignity.
“Their work isn’t about providing the bare minimum; it’s about giving people the tools they need to live fulfilling and independent lives.”
But here’s the thing: awareness alone isn’t enough. Stories like mine might inspire people, but inspiration only matters if it leads to real, meaningful change. Inclusion has to be more than a feel-good moment; it needs to be seen in accessible workplaces, inclusive education systems, and public spaces designed for everyone.
“Disabled people don’t exist to be an inspiration; we deserve real opportunities that allow us to be fully integrated members of society.”
After my speech, several people came up to me and said my words had changed their perspective. That’s important because shifting perspectives is the first step toward action. But action is what really matters. Whether it’s advocating for accessible buildings, hiring more disabled people, or simply challenging outdated stereotypes in everyday conversations, we all have a role to play in creating a more inclusive world.
It’s also critical to push for stronger policies at both organisational and governmental levels. We need accessibility laws that aren’t just recommendations but requirements. Public transport, workplaces, and technology should all be designed with disabled people in mind from the start, not as an afterthought. True inclusion isn’t just about letting us participate, it’s about making sure we can fully succeed.
“So, here’s my challenge to you: how will you commit to inclusion? Real change happens when we all take responsibility.”
Small actions, like ensuring event spaces are wheelchair-friendly, amplifying disabled voices, or advocating for policy changes, add up to something bigger. Every step forward matters.
Let’s turn inspiration into action by advocating for real change, supporting accessibility initiatives, and challenging outdated perceptions. Together, we can create a society where inclusion is the norm, not the exception. Let’s build a society where everyone, regardless of how they are perceived, has the opportunity to succeed, belong, and reach their full potential. Let’s start building that future today. What part will you play?